Anshvi
2 min readJan 1, 2024

In a world where we are constantly worried about other peopleā€™s opinions about us, or we are constantly influenced by the things they perceive for us about what we should do, how we should look and who we should be, it can be easy to lose sight of our own desires and ambitions.
The saying "do it for yourself" encourages individuals to pursue their goals and dreams for their own satisfaction and fulfilment, rather than for external validation or approval. When we align our actions with our true desires and passions, we are more likely to live in accordance with our genuine selves. This authenticity can lead to a greater sense of fulfilment and confidence, as we honour our unique identities and pursue paths that genuinely resonate with us. When we set up this mentality for ourselves, we start exploring so many new desires and capabilities of our own and instead of feeling pressured to conform to external expectations or norms, we prioritise our own well-being and happiness.
This can increase a deep sense of authenticity and self- acceptance.
Furthermore, embracing the "do it for yourself" mindset can lead to personal growth and transformation. When individuals pursue their own goals and dreams, they are more likely to invest wholeheartedly in their endeavours, leading to greater dedication and perseverance. This commitment to personal growth can result in profound self-discovery, skill development, and resilience in the face of challenges.
At some point of time in your life you are always responsible for your own happiness, the opinions of people donā€™t matter. At many parts of time the negative opinions of people shape our mindset into really negative things and also shift our decisions, but the negative opinions donā€™t matter at all.
You are living for your own self. In case no one told you today, you are worthy and you are capable of achieving everything you desire for.
Your life is your own story, write it beautifully.
HAPPY NEW YEAR

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